Grandparents and Abortion Survey

1) Please enter your current age
2) Please indicate your gender: Male Female
3) What is your race/ethnic origin?:
Caucasian
African American
Hispanic
American Indian
Asian
Other
4) What is your country of citizenship?   
5)What is your highest level of education?
Less than 12 years
High School Diploma
Technical training or Associates Degree
Bachelor's Degree
Graduate Degree
6) What is your employment status?
Full-Time
Part-Time
Unemployed
7) Please indicate your current marital status
Married
Remarried
Single (never married)
Single (divorced)
Single (widowed)
Separated
IF YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED THE ABORTION OF MORE THAN ONE GRANDCHILD, PLEASE ANSWER THE FOLLOWING QUESTIONS IN TERMS OF THE ONE ABORTION EXPERIENCE WHICH HAS BEEN THE MOST DIFFICULT FOR YOU.
8a) How long ago did the abortion occur?   years   months
8b) How many weeks pregnant was your child at the time of the abortion?   weeks   
8c) If you know what type of abortion was performed, identify it from the following list:
Suction aspiration
D & C (dilation & curettage)
D & E (dilation & evacuation)
Saline induced abortion
Prostaglandin abortion
Hysterotomy
Intact dilation & extraction (partial-birth abortion)
Chemically induced abortion (RU 486)
9) When the decision to abort was made...
9a. My child and I both supported the decision Yes No
9b. I pressured my child into choosing abortion Yes No
9c. Someone else pressured my child into choosing abortion Yes No
9d. My child chose to have an abortion against my wishes Yes No
9e. I left the decision to my child Yes No
f. I did not know about the abortion until after it occurred Yes No
10) Please indicate if any of the following were reasons that influenced your child's decision to abort:
a. Mental Health / Emotional distress Yes No
b. Physical Health Yes No
c. Financial Concerns Yes No
d. School / Educational Plans Yes No
e. Career Plans Yes No
f. Family Size Yes No
g. Social Reasons (e.g. embarrassment) Yes No
11) Has your relationship with your child changed since the abortion? Yes No
12) How would you describe your relationship with your child now as compared to before the abortion?
It has become much better than before
It has become slightly better than before
It is the same as before
It has become slighlty worse than before
It has become much worse than before
THE FOLLOWING IS A LIST OF PROBLEMS THAT PEOPLE MAY HAVE IN RESPONSE TO STRESSFUL EXPERIENCES. PLEASE READ EACH ONE CAREFULLY AND CHOOSE THE ANSWER THAT BEST DESCRIBES HOW MUCH YOU HAVE BEEN BOTHERED BY THAT PROBLEM AS A RESULT OF THE ABORTION. IF YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED MORE THAN ONE ABORTION, PLEASE CONSIDER THE ONE MOST STRESSFUL TO YOU AS YOU ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS.
13) Repeated disturbing memories, thoughts, or images of the abortion experience?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
14) Repeated disturbing dreams of the abortion experience?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
15) Suddenly acting or feeling as if the abortion were happening again (as if you were reliving it)?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
16) Feeling very upset when something reminded you of the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
17) Having physical reactions (e.g.heart pounding, trouble breathing, sweating)when something reminded you of the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
18) Avoiding thinking about or talking about the abortion experience or avoiding having feelings related to it?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
19) Avoiding activities or situations because they reminded you of the abortion experience?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
20) Trouble remembering important parts of the abortion experience?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
21) Loss of interest in activities you used to enjoy?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
22) Feeling distant or cut off from people since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
23) Feeling emotionally numb or being unable to have loving feelings for those close to you since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
24) Feeling as if your future will somehow be cut short since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
25) Trouble falling or staying asleep since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
26) Feeling irritable or having angry outbursts since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
27) Having difficulty concentrating since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
28) Being "super-alert" or watchful or on guard since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
29) Feeling jumpy or easily startled since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
CURRENT RESEARCH SUGGESTS THAT PEOPLE MAY EXPERIENCE A RANGE OF REACTIONS AFTER ABORTION. PLEASE INDICATE IF YOU HAVE PREVIOUSLY EXPERIENCED ("PAST") AND/OR IF YOU ARE CURRENTLY EXPERIENCING ("PRESENT") ANY OF THE FOLLOWING AS A RESULT OF THE ABORTION. YOU MAY CHECK BOTH "PAST" AND "PRESENT" IF APPLICABLE.
   30a: Anger Past Present
   30b: Helplessness Past Present
   30c: Grief or Sadness Past Present
   30d: Guilt Past Present
   30e: Relationship Problems Past Present
   30f: Sexual Problems Past Present
   30g: Isolation (either feeling alone or deliberately choosing to aovid other people) Past Present
   30h: Difficulty Concentrating Past Present
   30i: Anxiety or Excessive Worrying Past Present
   30j: Persistent thoughts about the baby Past Present
   30k: Confusion about a parent's role in society Past Present
   30l: Sadness at certain times of year (e.g. the month the abortion occurred or the month when the baby would have been born) Past Present
   30m: Difficulty sleeping Past Present
   30n: Disturbing Dreams or Nightmares Past Present
   30o: Alcohol and/or Drug Abuse Past Present
   30p: Increased Risk-Taking Behaviors (e.g. driving recklessly) Past Present
   30q: Felt Relieved Past Present
   30r: Felt more in control of my life Past Present
   30s: Felt more able to pursue my goals Past Present
   30t: Felt a sense of peace Past Present
   30u: Felt that I had regained my freedom Past Present
31) Have you spoken about your abortion experience with any of the following?
a. Spouse Yes No
b. Friend Yes No
c. Parent Yes No
d. Sibling (brother or sister) Yes No
e. Clergyperson (priest, pastor, rabbi) Yes No
f. Counselor (professional or volunteer) Yes No
g. Other Yes No
  If you have spoken to anyone, what made that discussion a positive experience for you?
     
  If you have spoken to anyone, what made that discussion a negative experience for you?
     
32) If you could go back to the time that the decision to abort was made, would you encourage your child to have an abortion? Yes No
33) If your child faced another unplanned pregnancy in the future, would you encourage abortion? Yes No
34) If you are a woman, have you yourself ever had an abortion?
OR
If you are a man, has your partner ever aborted a pregnancy you contributed to?
Yes No
35) Which of the following most closely describes your current position regarding abortion?
abortion should be legal for any reason at any time during pregnancy
abortion should be legal for any reason during the first trimester of pregnancy
abortion should be legal only in cases of rape, incest, serious genetic disorders, & when the mother's physical life is threatened
abortion should be legal only in cases of rape, incest, and when the mother's physical life is threatened
abortion should be legal only when the mother's physical life is threatened
abortion should never be legal
36) Do you believe that the law should require parental notification of a minor's abortion? Yes No
37) Do you believe that the law should require parental consent before a minor is allowed to obtain an abortion Yes No
  If your views have changed from what they were prior to your child's abortion, please explain how they have changed.
     
38) Please indicate your religion:
Christian
Jewish
Islam
Other
None
39) On a scale of one to five, please indicate how meaningful your religion is to you.
1-Not at all Important
2
3-Somewhat Important
4
5-Very Important
40) If you blame someone other than yourself for your child's decision to abort, to what degree have you forgiven that person?
1-not at all
2
3-in progress
4
5-completely
NA-does not apply to me
41) If you blame yourself even partially for your child's decision to abort, to what degree have you forgiven yourself?
1-not at all
2
3-in progress
4
5-completely
NA-does not apply to me
AS YOU ANSWER QUESTIONS 42-53 BELOW, PLEASE READ EACH ONE CAREFULLY AND CHOOSE THE RESPONSE THAT BEST DESCRIBES HOW YOU FEEL TODAY AFTER THE ABORTION EXPERIENCE.
42) I am a person of worth
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
43) I sometimes think I am "no good" at all
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
44) I am as capable as others
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
45) I am inclined to feel that I am a failure
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
46) I feel that I don't have much to be proud of
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
47) I have a number of good qualities
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
48) I seldom feel down or depressed
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
49) I often feel sad or unhappy
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
50) I frequently get anxious or worry about things
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
51) I tend to feel calm or at peace most of the time
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
52) I often get angry or irritable for no apparent reason
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
53) I feel hopeful about the future
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
54) Have you ever suffered any of the following?
   54a: Child Abuse Yes No
   54b: Child Nelgect Yes No
   54c: Sexual Abuse during childhood or adolescence Yes No
   54d: Physical Abuse during adulthood Yes No
   54e: Sexual Abuse or Assault during adulthood Yes No
 If you would like to explain the nature of the abuse, you may do so below.
     
55) Choose the number that best describes your abortion experience
1-Low Stress
2
3
4-Moderate Stress
5
6
7-High Stress
8
9
10-Overwhelming
PLEASE FEEL FREE TO SHARE ANY OTHER COMMENTS OR THOUGHTS ABOUT YOUR ABORTION EXPERIENCE.

THANK YOU FOR COMPLETING THIS SURVEY AND FOR PARTICIPATING IN OUR RESEARCH. IF YOU BELIEVE YOU MAY NEED OR BENEFIT FROM COUNSELING, CLICK "LINKS" ON THE SIDEBAR FOR REFERRAL INFORMATION.

© C.T. Coyle & V.M. Rue 2005