Men and Abortion Survey

1) Please enter your current age.   
2)What is your race/ethnic origin?
Caucasian
African American
Hispanic
American Indian
Asian
Other
3) What is your country of citizenship?   
4) What is your highest level of education?
less than 12 years
high school diploma
technical training or associate degree
bachelor's degree
graduate degree
5) What is your employment status?
Full-Time
Part-Time
Unemployed
6) Please indicate your current marital status.
married
remarried
single (never married)
single (divorced)
single (widowed)
separated
7) If you have living children, please indicate how many.   
8) If you have experienced more than one abortion, please indicate how many.   
PLEASE ANSWER THE FOLLOWING QUESTIONS REGARDING YOUR ABORTION EXPERIENCE. IF YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED MORE THAN ONE ABORTION, PLEASE CONSIDER THE ONE MOST STRESSFUL TO YOU AS YOU ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS.
9a) How long ago did the abortion occur?   years   months
9b) How many weeks pregnant was your partner at the time of the abortion?   weeks   
9c) If you know what type of abortion was performed, identify it from the following list:
Suction aspiration
D & C (dilation & curettage)
D & E (dilation & evacuation)
Saline induced abortion
Prostaglandin abortion
Hysterotomy
Intact dilation & extraction (partial-birth abortion)
Chemically induced abortion (RU 486)
10) Were you married to your partner at the time of the abortion? Yes No
11) Were you using contraception at the time the pregnancy occurred? Yes No
12) Was that pregnancy desired by you? Yes No
13) Was that pregnancy desired by your partner? Yes No
14) After scheduling your abortion, do you think a required waiting period would have been helpful for your decision making? Yes No
15) Do you think the counseling you received at the abortion clinic was adequate? Yes No
16) Do you think the abortion clinic provided you with sufficient information regarding alternatives to abortion? Yes No
17) Do you think the abortion clinic provided adequate information beforehand about the physical and emotional risks of abortion? Yes No
18) When the abortion decision was made
     18a. My partner and I both supported the decision Yes No
     18b. I pressured my partner into choosing abortion Yes No
     18c. Someone else pressured her into choosing abortion Yes No
     18d. I left my partner before the decision to abort was made Yes No
     18e. My partner chose to have an abortion against my wishes Yes No
     18f. I left the decision to my partner Yes No
     18g. I did not know about the abortion until after it occurred Yes No
19) Please indicate if any of the following were reasons that influenced your or your partner's decision to abort. Choose all that apply.
19a. Mental Health / Emotional distress Yes No
19b. Physical Health Yes No
19c. Financial Concerns Yes No
19d. School / Educational Plans Yes No
19e. Career Plans Yes No
19f. Family Size Yes No
g. Social Reasons (e.g. embarrassment) Yes No
20) Has your relationship continued with the same partner you had at the time of abortion? Yes No
21) Has your relationship with your partner changed since the abortion? Yes No
22) If you are still in a relationship with the same partner you had at the time of the abortion, how has it changed?
It has become much better than before
It has become slightly better than before
It is the same as before
It has become slightly worse than before
It has become much worse than before
23) If you are no longer in the relationship, how soon after the abortion did it end?   years   months
24) Prior to the abortion, have you ever
   24a: had mental health counseling? Yes No
   24b: been hospitalized for emotional reasons? Yes No
   24c: been told you needed counseling? Yes No
   24d: felt you needed mental health counseling but didn't go? Yes No
THE FOLLOWING IS A LIST OF PROBLEMS THAT PEOPLE SOMETIMES HAVE IN RESPONSE TO STRESSFUL EXPERIENCES. PLEASE READ EACH ONE CAREFULLY AND CHOOSE THE ANSWER THAT BEST DESCRIBES HOW MUCH YOU HAVE BEEN BOTHERED BY THAT PROBLEM AS A RESULT OF THE ABORTION. IF YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED MORE THAN ONE ABORTION, PLEASE CONSIDER THE ONE MOST STRESSFUL TO YOU AS YOU ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS.
25) Repeated disturbing memories, thoughts, or images of the abortion experience?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
26) Repeated disturbing dreams of the abortion experience?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
27) Suddenly acting or feeling as if the abortion were happening again (as if you were reliving it)?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
28) Feeling very upset when something reminded you of the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
29) Having physical reactions (e.g.heart pounding, trouble breathing, sweating)when something reminded you of the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
30) Avoiding thinking about or talking about the abortion experience or avoiding having feelings related to it?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
31) Avoiding activities or situations because they reminded you of the abortion experience?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
32) Trouble remembering important parts of the abortion experience?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
33) Loss of interest in activities you used to enjoy?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
34) Feeling distant or cut off from people since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
35) Feeling emotionally numb or being unable to have loving feelings for those close to you since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
36) Feeling as if your future will somehow be cut short since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
37) Trouble falling or staying asleep since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
38) Feeling irritable or having angry outbursts since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
39) Having difficulty concentrating since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
40) Being "super-alert" or watchful or on guard since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
41) Feeling jumpy or easily startled since the abortion?
Not at all
A little bit
Moderately
Quite a bit
Extremely
CURRENT RESEARCH SUGGESTS THAT MEN MAY EXPERIENCE A RANGE OF REACTIONS AFTER ABORTION. PLEASE INDICATE IF YOU HAVE PREVIOUSLY EXPERIENCED ("PAST") AND/OR IF YOU ARE CURRENTLY EXPERIENCING ("PRESENT") ANY OF THE FOLLOWING AS A RESULT OF THE ABORTION. YOU MAY CHECK BOTH "PAST" AND "PRESENT" IF APPLICABLE.
   42a: Anger Past Present
   42b: Helplessness Past Present
   42c: Grief or Sadness Past Present
   42d: Guilt Past Present
   42e: Relationship Problems Past Present
   42f: Sexual Problems Past Present
   42g: Isolation (either feeling alone or deliberately choosing to aovid other people) Past Present
   42h: Difficulty Concentrating Past Present
   42i: Anxiety or Excessive Worrying Past Present
   42j: Persistent thoughts about the baby Past Present
   42k: Confusion about a man's role in society Past Present
   42l: Sadness at certain times of year (e.g. the month the abortion occurred or the month when the baby would have been born) Past Present
   42m: Difficulty sleeping Past Present
   42n: Disturbing Dreams or Nightmares Past Present
   42o: Alcohol and/or Drug Abuse Past Present
   42p: Increased Risk-Taking Behaviors (e.g. driving recklessly) Past Present
   42q: Felt Relieved Past Present
   42r: Felt more in control of my life Past Present
   42s: Felt more able to pursue my goals Past Present
   42t: Felt a sense of peace Past Present
   42u: Felt that I had regained my freedom Past Present
43) Have you spoken about your abortion experience with any of the following?
   43a: Friend Yes No
   43b: Parent Yes No
   43c: Sibling (brother or sister) Yes No
   43d: Clergyperson (priest, pastor, or rabbi) Yes No
   43e: Counselor (professional or volunteer) Yes No
   43f: Other Yes No
     If you have spoken to anyone, what made that discussion a positive experience for you?
     
     If you have spoken to anyone, what made that discussion a negative experience for you?
     
44) If you could go back to the time that the decision to abort was made, would you make the same decision? Yes No
45) If you faced another unplanned pregnancy in the future, would you choose abortion? Yes No
46) Which of the following most closely describes your current position regarding abortion?
abortion should be legal for any reason at any time during pregnancy
abortion should be legal for any reason during the first trimester of pregnancy
abortion should be legal only in cases of rape, incest, serious genetic disorders, & when the mother's physical life is threatened
abortion should be legal only in cases of rape, incest, and when the mother's physical life is threatened
abortion should be legal only when the mother's physical life is threatened
abortion should never be legal
47) If your view of abortion has changed due to your personal experience, please indicate which of the following most closely describes your past position regarding abortion.
abortion should be legal for any reason at any time during pregnancy
abortion should be legal for any reason during the first trimester of pregnancy
abortion should be legal only in cases of rape, incest, serious genetic disorders, & when the mother's physical life is threatened
abortion should be legal only in cases of rape, incest, and when the mother's physical life is threatened
abortion should be legal only when the mother's physical life is threatened
abortion should never be legal
48) Please indicate your religion.
Christian
Jewish
Islam
Other
None
49) On a scale of one to five, how meaningful is your religion to you?
1-Not at all Important
2      
3-Somewhat Important
4      
5-Very Important
50) To what degree have you forgiven the person, other than yourself, whom you most blame for the abortion?
1-not at all

3-in progress

5-completely
NA-does not apply to my situation
51) If you blame yourself even partially for the abortion, to what degree have you forgiven yourself?
1-not at all

3-in progress

5-completely
NA-does not apply to my situation
AS YOU ANSWER QUESTIONS 52-63 BELOW, PLEASE READ EACH ONE CAREFULLY AND CHOOSE THE RESPONSE THAT BEST DESCRIBES HOW YOU FEEL TODAY AFTER HAVING EXPERIENCED AN ABORTION.
52) I am a person of worth
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
53) I sometimes think I am "no good" at all
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
54) I am as capable as others
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
55) I am inclined to feel that I am a failure
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
56) I feel that I don't have much to be proud of
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
57) I have a number of good qualities
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
58) I seldom feel down or depressed
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
59) I often feel sad or unhappy
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
60) I frequently get anxious or worry about things
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
61) I tend to feel calm or at peace most of the time
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
62) I often get angry or irritable for no apparent reason
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
63) I feel hopeful about the future
Strongly Agree
Agree
Disagree
Strongly Disagree
64) Have you ever suffered any of the following?
   64a: Child Abuse Yes No
   64b: Child Nelgect Yes No
   64c: Sexual Abuse during childhood or adolescence Yes No
   64d: Physical Abuse during adulthood Yes No
   64e: Sexual Abuse or Assault during adulthood Yes No
 If you would like to explain the nature of the abuse, you may do so below.
     
65) Choose the number that best describes your abortion experience
1-Low Stress
2
3
4-Moderate Stress
5
6
7-High Stress
8
9
10-Overwhelming
PLEASE FEEL FREE TO SHARE ANY OTHER COMMENTS OR THOUGHTS ABOUT YOUR PERSONAL ABORTION EXPERIENCE.

THANK YOU FOR COMPLETING THIS SURVEY AND FOR PARTICIPATING IN OUR RESEARCH. IF YOU BELIEVE YOU MAY NEED OR BENEFIT FROM COUNSELING, CLICK "LINKS" ON SIDEBAR FOR REFERRAL INFORMATION.
   

 

 

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